Have had the chance to put in a bunch of reps in new places lately and that always means trying out some new this and that.
After running in to some older stuff by a Dallas cat and adopting a bit of the framework it’s boiled down to running through this mostly in order…
– No judgement
– Keeping secrets
Sometimes these things switch up but it’s all mostly related. I’m messing around with whether stories or just straight talking is better for framing these but playing it by ear has been straight venom.
This has also lead to heavy opening up during the postgame show.
The thing is that these can be put on basically any convo topic which is just mostly making some association and tying it back to a relevant experience.
It’s also not something that can come out your neck either. Incongruity would be deadly on it, going against the principles of the whole thing.
It’s been turning up results to say the least.
They really seem to need it because the response very solid and has more or less expressed the sentiment of a very desired release.
A quick illustration of the point.
Rolling out after a solid day of wheeling and dealing. Of course some stuff had closed and I was on the road so there was a celebration to be had. I’m in good spirits.
Head to a spot I’ve posted at before but it’s the middle of the week so it’s a coin toss as to what the energy will be. Roll up and it’s a low key night. People, but not packed and perfect for the plans I had.
Post at the bar with some Rye and start talking out the side of my mouth like always. There’s some good banter with the group next to me, they are fun and interested in where I’m from. I mingle and enjoy the conversation.
I catch eyes with a fly chick as she comes in. The feeling is mutual attraction. I keep up the conversation and a few minutes later she is at the bar ordering a drink.
I ask her how the night is going.
Turns out she’s there with friends. Her roommate is taking a girl home for the night. No Judgement.
She explains she’s not really in to that. Maybe it just wasn’t the right one for her. I get it. I’m in to sex with women. Particularly fly ones like herself that know how to let themselves go when they find something they want.
I asked if it was drama because word got around. Of course it was. Keeping secrets is important.
We order more drinks and the convo goes deeper. Eventually she suggests we head back to my spot after the round.